| Location | Waltham Cross Herts |
| Age | 71 years |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 23/06/1935 |
| Date of Death | 28/03/2007 |
| Visitors | 2,485 since 06/02/2009 |
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MY MUM WAS A FUN LOVING PERSON TO THE END. SHE DIED
11 DAYS AFTER MY WEDDING AND NEVER GOT TO SEE THE
WEDDING PHOTOS. SHE HAD 4 CHILDREN 11 GRANDCHILDREN
AND 11 GREAT GRANDCHILDREN. SHE WAS LOVED BY EVERY
ONE WHO KNEW HER. SHE WAS KNOWN AS :DIAMOND LIL: BY
ALL HER FRIENDS. SHE HAD SO MUCH LOVE TO GIVE AND GAVE TO EVERY ONE.
SHE WILL BE REMEMBERED BY SO MANY .
WE WENT OUT AS NORMAL THE FOLLOWING WEEKEND TO THE WEDDING AND MUM WASN'T HERSELF. SHE KEEP DRIFTING
AS IF SHE WASN'T WITH US. RAY TOOK HER HOME AS USUAL. I CALLED HER EVERY DAY 4 OR 5 TIMES TIMES TO
MAKE SURE SHE WAS OK. TUESDAY SHE SAID SHE WAS STAYING IN BED. WEDNESDAY THE CARERS COULDN'T GET ANY
ANSWER SO WE ALL GO RUSHING AROUND AND SHE WAS IN BED ASLEEP. SHE HAD A SANDWICH AND SAID SHE WAS
GOING TO LAY DOWN AGAIN, SHE CALLED ME AT 4 PM TO SAY SHE WAS OK AND HAD A DRINK BUT WAS STAYING IN
BED. I GOT A CALL AT 6 PM TO TELL ME TO GET DOWN THERE STRAIGHT AWAY. WHEN I GOT THERE I WAS SO
SHOCKED. THEY HAD MUM LAYING ON THE HALL WAY FLOOR TRYING TO REVIVE HER I HAD TO STEP OVER HER. BUT
IN THE END THEY SAID SHE HAD GONE. SHE JUST WENT TO SLEEP AND NEVER WOKE UP.
THEY PUT MUM BACK IN HER BED AND I MADE SURE SHE WAS COVERED UP.THE UNDERTAKERS CAME A FEW HOURS
LATER.I WENT TO SEE MUM EVERY DAY IN THE CHAPEL OF REST. WE COULDN'T UNDERSTAND WHY MUM WAS STILL
WARM WHEN THE UNDERTAKERS CAME FOR HER. IT WAS A COUPLE DAYS LATER THAT WE FOUND OUT WHY. WHEN SHE
WAS PLACED BACK INTO HER BED HER ELECTRIC BLANKET WAS STILL ON HIGH. MUM NEVER LIKED THE COLD. WE
ALL MISS YOU SO MUCH AND YOUR PLACE IN OUR HEARTS CAN NEVER BE FILLED. LOVE YOU MUM. XXX
I WOULD LIKE TO THANK FRANCIS FOR THE PHOTOS SHE HAS DONE FOR MY MUM XXX
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RAY WAS AND STILL IS THE LOVE OF MY MUMS LIFE.XX
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MOTHER
M is for the million things she gave me
O is for she was getting old
T is for the tears she shed for me
H was for her heart made of gold
E was for her eyes that shone like diamonds
R is for as right as right can be
Put them all together they spell Mother
And my Mother meant the whole wide world to me.
Rose Beyond the Wall
A rose once grew
where all could see,
sheltered beside
a garden wall,
And as the days passed
swiftly by,
it spread its branches, straight and tall...
One day, a beam of light
shone through
a crevice that had
opened wide ~
The rose bent gently
toward its warmth
then passed beyond
to the other side
Now, you who deeply
feel its loss,
be comforted ~ the rose blooms there ~
its beauty even greater now,
nurtured by
God's own loving care.
xxx
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