| Location | Waltham Cross Herts |
| Age | 71 years |
| Cause of Death | Organ Failure |
| Date of Birth | 23/06/1935 |
| Date of Death | 28/03/2007 |
| Visitors | 5,944 since 06/02/2009 |
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MY MUM WAS A FUN LOVING PERSON TO THE END. SHE DIED
11 DAYS AFTER MY WEDDING AND NEVER GOT TO SEE THE
WEDDING PHOTOS. SHE HAD 4 CHILDREN 11 GRANDCHILDREN
AND 11 GREAT GRANDCHILDREN. SHE WAS LOVED BY EVERY
ONE WHO KNEW HER. SHE WAS KNOWN AS :DIAMOND LIL: BY
ALL HER FRIENDS. SHE HAD SO MUCH LOVE TO GIVE AND GAVE TO EVERY ONE.
SHE WILL BE REMEMBERED BY SO MANY .
WE WENT OUT AS NORMAL THE FOLLOWING WEEKEND TO THE WEDDING AND MUM WASN'T HERSELF. SHE KEEP DRIFTING AS IF SHE WASN'T WITH US. RAY TOOK HER HOME AS USUAL. I CALLED HER EVERY DAY 4 OR 5 TIMES TIMES TO MAKE SURE SHE WAS OK. TUESDAY SHE SAID SHE WAS STAYING IN BED. WEDNESDAY THE CARERS COULDN'T GET ANY ANSWER SO WE ALL GO RUSHING AROUND AND SHE WAS IN BED ASLEEP. SHE HAD A SANDWICH AND SAID SHE WAS GOING TO LAY DOWN AGAIN, SHE CALLED ME AT 4 PM TO SAY SHE WAS OK AND HAD A DRINK BUT WAS STAYING IN BED. I GOT A CALL AT 6 PM TO TELL ME TO GET DOWN THERE STRAIGHT AWAY. WHEN I GOT THERE I WAS SO SHOCKED. THEY HAD MUM LAYING ON THE HALL WAY FLOOR TRYING TO REVIVE HER I HAD TO STEP OVER HER. BUT IN THE END THEY SAID SHE HAD GONE. SHE JUST WENT TO SLEEP AND NEVER WOKE UP.
THEY PUT MUM BACK IN HER BED AND I MADE SURE SHE WAS COVERED UP.THE UNDERTAKERS CAME A FEW HOURS LATER.I WENT TO SEE MUM EVERY DAY IN THE CHAPEL OF REST. WE COULDN'T UNDERSTAND WHY MUM WAS STILL WARM WHEN THE UNDERTAKERS CAME FOR HER. IT WAS A COUPLE DAYS LATER THAT WE FOUND OUT WHY. WHEN SHE WAS PLACED BACK INTO HER BED HER ELECTRIC BLANKET WAS STILL ON HIGH. MUM NEVER LIKED THE COLD. WE ALL MISS YOU SO MUCH AND YOUR PLACE IN OUR HEARTS CAN NEVER BE FILLED. LOVE YOU MUM. XXX
I WOULD LIKE TO THANK FRANCIS FOR THE PHOTOS SHE HAS DONE FOR MY MUM XXX
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HAPPY HEAVENLY BIRTHDAY BRENDA XX
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Lots of love brenda xx
FOOTPRINTS IN THE SAND
One night a man had a dream.
He dreamed he was walking along the beach
with the Lord.
Across the sky flashed scenes from his life.
For each scene,
he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand.
One belonged to him, and the other to the Lord.
When the last scene of his life flashed before him,
he looked back at the footprints in the sand.
He noticed
that many times along the path of his life,
there was only one set of footprints.
He also noticed that it happened
at the very lowest
and saddest times in his life.
This really bothered him
and he questioned the Lord about it.:
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"Lord, you said that once I decided to follow you,
you'd walk with me all the way.
But I have noticed that during
the most troublesome times in my life,
there is only one set of footprints.
I don't understand why when I needed you the most
you would leave me."
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The Lord replied,
"My precious, precious child,
I love you and would never leave you.
During your times of trial and suffering,
when you see only one set of footprints,
it was then I carried you."
~Author Unknown~ love always gail & carla XxX
♥MERRY CHRISTMAS♥MERRY CHRISTMAS♥
Tributes For Week Commencing 13th December
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FOR MONDAY
ღ TILL THE ROSES LOSE THEIR PETALS,
ღ TILL THE HEATHER SHEDS ITS DEW,
ღ TILL THE END OF TIME DEAR ANGEL,
ღ WE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU
FOR TUESDAY
ღ TAKE A MILLION TEARDROPS
ღ AND WRAP THEM UP WITH LOVE
ღ AND ASK THE WIND TO CARRY THEM
ღ TO YOU IN HEAVEN ABOVE
FOR WEDNESDAY
ღ NO MATTER HOW WE SPEND OUR DAY,
ღ NO MATTER WHAT WE DO,
ღ WE NEVER SPEND A SINGLE DAY,
ღ WITHOUT A THOUGHT OF YOU.
FOR THURSDAY
ღ MAY THE WINDS OF LOVE,
ღ BLOW SOFTLY AND WHISPER IN YOUR EAR,
ღ HOW MUCH WE LOVE AND MISS YOU,
ღ AND WISH THAT YOU WERE HERE.
FOR FRIDAY
______________Merry Christmas________
___________________Hello
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_______________Merry Christmas
______________And Also, A Happy
_____________New Year To You For
____________2011... I Hope The New
___________Year Brings You Loads Of
__________Happiness And Lots Of Fun.
_________I Hope You Have A Nice Day On
________Christmas Day, Filled With Lots Of
_______Angel Time.......And Of Course Eating
______Lots Of Nice Foods, And Candies. I Hope
_____That Santa Is Good To You As Well And He
___Brings You Loads Of Presents On Christmas Day
FOR SATURDAY
May this Christmas be filled
With happiness in all that you do
And may this joy continue
The whole year through
Wishing you a Merry Christmas
And a Happy New Year.
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FOR SUNDAY
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DEAR FRIEND’S WISHING YOU AND YOUR ANGEL'S
A VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR
♥MERRY CHRISTMAS♥MERRY CHRISTMAS♥
...........Thoughts Today, Memories Forever
.....….Angela Christopher’s Very Proud Mum
♥MERRY CHRISTMAS♥MERRY CHRISTMAS♥
Rudolph the Red Nosed Reindeer : Lyrics
Rudolph, the red-nosed reindeer
had a very shiny nose.
And if you ever saw him,
you would even say it glows.
All of the other reindeer
used to laugh and call him names.
They never let poor Rudolph
join in any reindeer games.
Then one foggy Christmas Eve
Santa came to say:
"Rudolph with your nose so bright,
won't you guide my sleigh tonight?"
Then all the reindeer loved him
as they shouted out with glee,
Rudolph the red-nosed reindeer,
you'll go down in history! love always gail & carla XxX
'Christmas Bells' poem
Make it Snow !
I heard the bells on Christmas Day
Their old, familiar carols play,
And wild and sweet
The words repeat
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!
And thought how, as the day had come,
The belfries of all Christendom
Had rolled along
The unbroken song
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!
Till, ringing, singing on its way
The world revolved from night to day,
A voice, a chime,
A chant sublime
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!
Then from each black, accursed mouth
The cannon thundered in the South,
And with the sound
The Carols drowned
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!
And in despair I bowed my head;
‘There is no peace on earth,’ I said;
‘For hate is strong,
And mocks the song
Of peace on earth, good-will to men!’
Then pealed the bells more loud and deep:
‘God is not dead; nor doth he sleep!
The Wrong shall fail,
The Right prevail,
With peace on earth, good-will to men!’
'Christmas Bells' poem Author unknown .love always gail & carla XxX
Angel in our heart~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
When I have no one to turn to
And I am feeling kind of low,
When there is no one to talk to
And nowhere I want to go,
I search deep within myself
It is the love inside my heart
That lets me know my Angels are there
Even though we are miles apart.
A smile then appears upon my face
And the sun begins to shine.
I hear a voice, so soft and sweet
Saying, 'Everything will be just fine'
It may seem that I am alone
But I am never by myself at all.
Whenever I need my Angels near
All I have to do is call.
An Angel's love is always true
On that you can depend.
They will always stand behind you
And will always be your friend.
Through darkest hours and brightest days
Our Angels see us through.
You are one of my Angels.
Perhaps I am one for you.
Author Unknown - Submitted By: Claire W.
You're such an Angel! love always gail & carla XxX
AN ANGEL KISSED MY TEARS AWAY TODAY
An Angel kissed my tears away today
when I was sad.
I wasn't feeling quite myself
my day had been so bad.
I felt a warmth brush by me
that quickly dried my tears.
A gentle, kind, and loving touch
that seemed to hold me near.
Immediately, I felt so much better
and the day seemed brighter too.
I guess that's just the way you feel
when an Angel comforts you. xxxxxx
A Simple Thank-You, My Friend
by warmhrt
Into the dim lit, bare walls of my world,
You entered, bringing light and life to me,
The vivid colors, painted with a swirl
Of wit and charm, of personality,
With tender care, you added comfort, warmth,
And images that line the now bright walls.
I look upon them fondly, bringing forth
A thankfulness that you walk in these halls
With me; our friendship has become a part
Of my world now; it has its special place,
Within my being, life, and in my heart,
Your name hangs right beside your smiling face.
Rememb'ring just how drab these walls had been,
I have to thank you for the light, my friend. & Thanks for all your love & support you have shone to my mum & dad godbless you & your Angel love gail & carla XxX
For my loved ones
❤I'm every place, don't mourn for me
I'm still here, though you don't see
I'm right by your side each night and day
And within your heart I long to stay
My body is gone but I'm always near
I'm everything you feel, see or hear
My spirit is free, but I'll never depart
As long as you keep me alive in your heart
I know I am still with you
in your prayers, your thoughts, your heart
And though you cannot see me,
I will always be a part
of life's sweet celebrations
in those times when you reflect
on how, though things are different,
through our love, we still connect.
We'll see each other someday
when our spirits all are free,
until then, I am with you
because you remember me.
(Author unknown)
My love to you and your loved ones always x x x
YOU'RE A REAL ANGEL
If an angel is someone who's so filled with love,
it's a gift that they constantly share,
If an angel is someone who looks out for others
and gives them a nudge here and there,
If an angel is someone who touches your life
with a heart that's both joyful and wise,
Then even though you don't have halo or wings,
you're an angel in human disguise.
~By Emily Matthews~ love always gail & carla XxX

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