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Brenda Card

1935 - 2007
LocationWaltham Cross Herts
Age71 years
Cause of DeathOrgan Failure
Date of Birth23/06/1935
Date of Death28/03/2007
Visitors2,472 since 06/02/2009
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MY MUM WAS A FUN LOVING PERSON TO THE END. SHE DIED
11 DAYS AFTER MY WEDDING AND NEVER GOT TO SEE THE
WEDDING PHOTOS. SHE HAD 4 CHILDREN 11 GRANDCHILDREN
AND 11 GREAT GRANDCHILDREN. SHE WAS LOVED BY EVERY
ONE WHO KNEW HER. SHE WAS KNOWN AS :DIAMOND LIL: BY
ALL HER FRIENDS. SHE HAD SO MUCH LOVE TO GIVE AND GAVE TO EVERY ONE.
SHE WILL BE REMEMBERED BY SO MANY .
WE WENT OUT AS NORMAL THE FOLLOWING WEEKEND TO THE WEDDING AND MUM WASN'T HERSELF. SHE KEEP DRIFTING
AS IF SHE WASN'T WITH US. RAY TOOK HER HOME AS USUAL. I CALLED HER EVERY DAY 4 OR 5 TIMES TIMES TO
MAKE SURE SHE WAS OK. TUESDAY SHE SAID SHE WAS STAYING IN BED. WEDNESDAY THE CARERS COULDN'T GET ANY
ANSWER SO WE ALL GO RUSHING AROUND AND SHE WAS IN BED ASLEEP. SHE HAD A SANDWICH AND SAID SHE WAS
GOING TO LAY DOWN AGAIN, SHE CALLED ME AT 4 PM TO SAY SHE WAS OK AND HAD A DRINK BUT WAS STAYING IN
BED. I GOT A CALL AT 6 PM TO TELL ME TO GET DOWN THERE STRAIGHT AWAY. WHEN I GOT THERE I WAS SO
SHOCKED. THEY HAD MUM LAYING ON THE HALL WAY FLOOR TRYING TO REVIVE HER I HAD TO STEP OVER HER. BUT
IN THE END THEY SAID SHE HAD GONE. SHE JUST WENT TO SLEEP AND NEVER WOKE UP.
THEY PUT MUM BACK IN HER BED AND I MADE SURE SHE WAS COVERED UP.THE UNDERTAKERS CAME A FEW HOURS
LATER.I WENT TO SEE MUM EVERY DAY IN THE CHAPEL OF REST. WE COULDN'T UNDERSTAND WHY MUM WAS STILL
WARM WHEN THE UNDERTAKERS CAME FOR HER. IT WAS A COUPLE DAYS LATER THAT WE FOUND OUT WHY. WHEN SHE
WAS PLACED BACK INTO HER BED HER ELECTRIC BLANKET WAS STILL ON HIGH. MUM NEVER LIKED THE COLD. WE
ALL MISS YOU SO MUCH AND YOUR PLACE IN OUR HEARTS CAN NEVER BE FILLED. LOVE YOU MUM. XXX

I WOULD LIKE TO THANK FRANCIS FOR THE PHOTOS SHE HAS DONE FOR MY MUM XXX
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RAY WAS AND STILL IS THE LOVE OF MY MUMS LIFE.XX
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If Your Knew

If you knew where I am standing
If you could see the sights I see
If you could hear the angels singing
The songs they sing eternally
If you knew the One I'm holding
Could see the smile He smiles at me
If you knew where I am resting
You would not cry for me

I'm resting in the arms of Jesus
No other place would I rather be
So if you shed a tear
Please don't shed it for me
For if you knew where I am resting
You would not cry for me

(by Steven Kinworthy)

Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Sending lots of Love to you AngelƸ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ

A candle filled with lots of extra love is sent to you in your home above,i will be away until Tuesday but will be thinking of you as i carry you in my heart Always x x x

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Mornng Angel

Sorry i have not been to visit and light your candles
but it does not mean i have not thought of you,i will always carry you in my Heart,but as you will know our new angel Glenys has come to join you,take care of her she is missed so very much,love to you and all your loved ones godbless Denise x ♥ x ♥ x


♥ Dearer still as the Days,months, and years depart,
Our Angels live forever in my hearts ♥

Denise Angels Beth And Faye Doris And Eric (Friend) September 28, 2009

With Love xXx

Just letting you know I was here......

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to leave lots of love and kisses for you
Love always
xXx

Jo And Shaun Angels Mummy And Daddy (Best Friend) September 15, 2009

LOVE
IF LOVE COULD BRING YOU HOME AGAIN
YOU WOULD BE BY YOR LOVED ONES SIDE
BECAUSE THERE HEARTS ARE BREAKING
FOR THE LOVE THEY HAVE INSIDE
THEY NEVER ASK FOR MUCH
ALL THEY WANT IS TO HOLD YOU
AND KEEP YOU BY THERE SIDE
BUT LIFE GOES ON WITHOUT YOU
IN OUR HEART YOU WILL STAY FOREVER
TILL THE DAY WE ARE TOGETHER
AND THEN THE TEARS WILL GO AWAY
XxXxXxX

Ness McLear (GTS Friend) August 6, 2009

WE MISSED YOU WHEN WE WENT TO IRELAND MUM YOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN WITH US IT WAS SO MUCH FUN. THE CHILDREN REALLY LOVED IT .

June Charlies Nana (Daughter) July 28, 2009

~~~~~~~~~ Sweet Dreams ~~~~~~~~~~

Goodnight my love, sleep tight
I'm sending all my love tonight
I'll dream of you when I sleep
Sweet memories of you I'll always keep

I close my eyes and try to see
Those days when you were here with me
I love you more than words can say
And think about you every day

I dream you're walking by my side
Keeping pace with every stride
Chatting just like we used to do
I cherish these sweet dreams of you.

copyright© Ingrid Aspey 1/7/09

love linda xxx

Linda McHendry July 3, 2009

♥ Dear angel,♥

♥ You are invited to my dad charles vida and brother karl vidas birthday,joint birthday,born same day lol,different year, 28 june ♥
♥ Birthday Party on the 28th june 2009 ♥
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♥ Everyone welcome & no presents required. ♥
love CHARLES VIDA AND SON KARL VIDA.
THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT,LOVE ALWAYS BEAUTIFUL ANGEL,LOVE HALINA XXXXX

Its your birthday tomorrow mum so I will be up to see you and bring you some lovely red roses.I miss you so much,and dont know what to do with out you.I wish you were coming to Ireland with us in July. But I know you will be there ,I love you lots xxxxx

June Charlies Nana (Daughter) June 22, 2009

brenda

little clouds of kisses are being sent your way for a very speciel angel who we wish was here today love janet x

Janet Brown June 21, 2009
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